In today’s environment, no one feels compelled to “show up” anymore. We don’t need to respond to emails or texts in real time (or at all). The phone really isn’t ringing, so there’s no need to answer a call to action.

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In today’s environment, no one feels compelled to “show up” anymore. We don’t need to respond to emails or texts in real time (or at all). The phone really isn’t ringing, so there’s no need to answer a call to action.
Are the sensitivity levels too high here? If we are asked to walk on eggshells, isn’t it inevitable that they will be broken? Women are in fact advancing, there is progress on the horizon. But at what cost?
We have room for you in the front row she says. I have comfortably moved into my seat in the back left corner of the gigantic ballroom, now lined with rows and rows of black draped tables and outdated upholstered chairs. I have unpacked my essentials- computer, blackberry, personal phone, bottle of Smart Water- when …
Continue reading The Invitation I Couldn’t Refuse… What Happened Next?
Winded, I look up to see I just got tossed by a 12 year old girl with an athletic build on her way to the “free candy” table at my industry conference. Instinctively I think, I wish my kids were here with me. But really, I don’t. For a moment, I think, I really miss …
Rules were made to be broken, and so were New Year's Resolutions right? This is why I didn't make any this year. No "do more of this", or "try harder at that". No more results oriented goals. This is why I didn't pen the typical New Year's blog post at all either. This year, I'm …
Continue reading Dessert Before Dinner and Other Habits To Break
A year and five days ago I did a thing. I started this blog to journal my quest to have it all- career, family, and a fruitful writing gig on the side. I was going to write about being a real life hustler; a working mom, a loving wife, a successful career woman, and people …
I always bring a box of tissues. Year after year, after working my butt off to be the best employee, the biggest producer- while also striving to be an amazing wife and mom- I walk into that office for my year end review, and end up devastated and sobbing. Why the surprises? Haven't we all …
Continue reading My Feedback on Feedback: There are Drawbacks
Runway reflections as we take off. Headed for home. I really enjoy business trips. Granted, I don't do it regularly, but I added it up, and I've spent about 4 work weeks out of the office- and yes, away from my family- this year. A bit of a staggering amount of time to be away …
Continue reading The Intangible Merits Of Business Travel: Gotta Fly The Coop Sometimes
Let's talk about politics. They'll be no mention of Donald's or Hillary's or Russia in this discourse. We are addressing a different kind of politics entirely. Similarly confusing, maddening, and hard to navigate, office politics are an unavoidable workplace hazard. Especially when it comes to communicating via electronic mail. Any leader with a decent track …
Everyone has that moment. The one you wish you could go back to. The one you for which you would like a do over. There are rarely second chances. It is virtually impossible to reclaim the time, take back the words you play over and over in your head. It wasn't supposed to be that …